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Salam and Hi,
Strength comes from the heart. Sadly, so does human weaknesses. Thus, the most peculiar thing to take care is the heart. It is the source of great joy, as well as abyss of misery. I’m not an expert is terms of heart purification nor an astute clergy to offer solutions to heart’s problems. But, I know that if we take care of our heart, more importantly our intentions, we can be better off in this murky world.
What I can share are things that worked for me to clam my heart. We all must have bad times in life. I admit, at times I cant even bear with many stuffs. But, time cures. It gives space to contemplate and reflect subsequently maturing us about this world we live in. Whatever the cause of our miseries, what is more important is how we get over it.
We need help sometimes. That is why, I’m writing this post. There were great people who helped me overcome my grief. I want to emulate their goodness by helping you, dear reader instead. You need help when you are sad, and this is something that hopefully can help.
I want to share practical things that you can try to alleviate pain and enrich your self-esteem.
1) Wish birthday
This is easy. Look up at the top right corner in your Facebook home page. Everyday, there will be notifications on your friends birthday. Write nice things and wish them prosperity. You will get three things. 1) Self-esteem. It is just a nice feeling that we have done say 5 birthday wishes in just 10 minutes. This kind of thinking will boost your self-esteem because we now feel that we have the power to do good things too for others. 2) Affection. People will remember even something as small as birthday wish, even better a birthday present. Their perception of us will change for the better. 3) A good start for the day. This early motivation boost will carry its weigh throughout our day.
2) Share something inspiring
Post on Facebook, talk or give inspiring wallpapers, you tube videos, and even blog posts to people around you. Whatever things that you found funny, motivating and sensible please share it. Spread the love they say. You will get two things. 1) Helping other people enlighten our hearts. We will fell grateful of what we have and would want everyone else to benefit from it. Generosity will develop thus we could not possibly fell bad about ourselves if we feel lucky. 2) The good feeling if someone like it or benefited from it. We now believe that we can help others too. This again improve our morals and speed up our own recovery.
3) Help people in any instances
Simple. If you found an avenue to reduce the hardship of other people, please do it For Muslims, pahala is guaranteed. So why not take it as a personal ambition. Things like picking up small sweet wrapper on the road to helping your brother move house can really make the difference in the way you feel.
In conclusion, doing all these small things did helped me. I hope they will for you too. 
